Growing up, I enjoyed swimming and biking, nothing competitive, they were just my preferred outdoor activities. Even though I participated in track in high school, running was never my thing. Fast forward to 5 years ago. I had two active kids (8 and 10), a teaching career, an amazing husband, and a nice house. I was fluffy but did not think myself fat. On paper (well on Facebook), it looked like I “had it all.” I was going through the motions of being a teacher, taxi mom, wife, and friend. Something was missing, I just didn’t know what it was… yet.
At age 10, my son was learning to love to run and wanted to participate in a 5k. I did not think that I should put my 10-year old into a 5k by himself, so we signed up together. Even though I was not in the greatest shape, I put the Couch to 5k app on my phone and started training. My first 5k was April 10, 2011, I don’t remember my time, but my son beat me by at least 6 minutes. It was slow, but I "could" run. That year I did a few more 5k’s “with” my son (he beat me every time.) I was slowly becoming a runner. I was also taking a spinning class that was taught by an instructor that had done a local tri. She knew that I was doing 5k’s and told me I should do triathlons. The seed was planted.
In 2012, as I set yet another New Year’s Resolution to lose weight, I added that I would complete a local triathlon that year. So, I did… I completed 7 that year: 1 indoor, 5 sprints, and an Olympic distance. I had found what I was missing. I had found the thing that showed me how to be proud of myself, how to prioritize myself, and how to inspire myself to want more. I found people that lift each other up, that compete with themselves before others, and that inspires me. I found that finish line feeling of accomplishment and I wanted to share that feeling with everyone!
My “why” has continued to grow each year I have competed in Triathlons. In 2012, my why was about finding balance between being a wife, mother, teacher, and self. In 2013, my why was about overcoming a motorcycle accident and getting back out there, no matter how hard it was. In 2014, I learned that I could inspire others like my daughter and my students began to join me. Inspiring others became a major part of my why as others in the sport continued to inspire me. In 2015, I tackled my first full ironman. My why was about finding the strength to push through injuries and life’s challenges to train and complete 140.6 miles. I borrowed that strength from my family and friends. I would have never completed that race without them. I learned so much about myself in those 15+ hours! My ultra-competitive, type "A" personality had to take a back seat while I learned to really enjoy the process of tackling the impossible. Every time I think about that race, I remember that SOMETIMES GOOD ENOUGH IS PRETTY AMAZING! Check out my IMLP race report at https://www.thisgirlsgotgoals.com/2015/07/ironman-lake-placid-race-report.html
In 2016, my why was to show that having goals and reaching towards them is what keeps us balanced, inspires others, and gives us something to fight with, even when the fight seems impossible. That year, my why was to help others learn that they are "enough", and they too can tackle what seems "impossible." I raised $25,000 to help other women find their balance, overcome obstacles, inspire themselves and others, and find strength through this amazing sport. That $25,000 will be administered by Women for Tri as grants and scholarships for women getting into our sport.
After a couple of tough 70.3 races in 2018 and 2019, then a world pandemic, I let myself get a little too far removed from triathlon. 2021 has been a “comeback” year!! I am finding my new triathlon community after we moved to North Carolina and reconnecting with my previous tri-friends as we cheer each on virtually!! I was able to finish off the 2021 season with a PR at my new 'home' course, IM70.3 North Carolina! In 2021 I reconnect3ed with my why from 2016 and found my confidence and strength once again!